It makes me sad, the lack of empathy people demonstrate for a certain actor (cough*cole*cough) who has very obvious nervous ticks and gets fidgety. I so relate to Lili being sleepy and not super energized today, but I also have awful anxiety that manifests itself similarly to Cole’s inability to stay still and I empathize with him, too. This fandom can be very judgmental.

lavandersunrise:

gershwinn:

Can’t say I disagree. All the ‘’Cole’s being manic/loud’’ posts have been annoying me for that reason. My anxiety, when I can’t retreat into myself and am forced to interact, works in similar ways as well but with more dumb unnecessary and weirdly placed laughing on my end lol. But fandom gotta have something to complain about I guess. Not that Cole’s one bit concerned with what they think. 

And some just have restless energy and get bored quickly, which is, what I think Cole has