Someone commented on a post saying “bughead is very toxic” I asked ” Explain how” She said “honey, please don’t @ me, you’ll be blocked” I said “I just asked how”(she didn’t reply some said ” I see you have no explanation, you just hate bughead”) She said “I’m trying to write a fucking essay and you’re trying to start an argument to me bughead don’t seem like a good fit, they can never seem to have a good relationship and they really aren’t able to” (part1 part2 if you want)

gershwinn:

see there you go. they’re already ruining their whole point. let me tell you how people these days do their reasoning. ‘’a relationship going through a tough time = THAT’S TOXIC’’. that’s it. usually also based in their existing dislike of the ship/love for a ‘competing’ ship.

doesn’t matter that real relationships go through ups and downs all the time. doesn’t matter that external forces are the things pushing the issues on the relationship. just call it toxic and scream it loud enough and lookie some people will follow suit.

toxic is a word that gets thrown around so often nowadays it’s losing its meaning to like ‘a couple who’s in a fight once in a while’ which is kinda insulting to people who went through real toxic relationships imo.

in conclusion to this long ass rant: just bc someone on the internet screams it’s toxic with some poor ass arguments doesn’t mean it is. and it sure as shit isn’t an applicable term for bh.